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Your Story Ep 35 : Lucy and Willy. Swinging, Sport Sex, Emotional Pitfalls and The Lifestyle.

Welcome To Episode 35 of Your Story.

Today we talk with a married couple, Lucy and Willy who for the last half dozen years have been in the Swinging scene of recreational sex where they sexually share each other on occasions with other couples.swinging

Wikipedia describes swinging as “non-monogamous sexual activity, treated much like any other social activity, that can be experienced as a couple.”

In this episode of Your Story Lucy and Willy describe how they discovered, discussed and the decisions to move into what’s referred to as “The Lifestyle”. With frankness they explain how they considered all possible bizarre situations, many of which eventually evolved and laid down ground rules for them to deal with too much intimacy and explain that contrary to the way it’s promoted, as harmless unemotional sexual fun, there is the danger that emotions do become involved and create the messy dynamics that are part of all human relationships despite the fact that rules are in place and all agree that it just for Fun.

Lucy and Willy say that’s it’s a great lifestyle but with dangers that need to be considered if your entering The Lifestyle and that open, loving and honest communication with your partner is first and foremost and even with that there are potential pitfalls to watch out for. From their experience if your considering this lifestyle take care and Do no harm seems to me to be the message.

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{ 4 comments… add one }
  • Cameron Reilly Tuesday, 12 May, 2009, 1:44 pm

    Another great show mate! I’ve been thinking a lot about these issues lately and it was great to hear such a sober and informed discussion about the pros and cons.

  • Ian Friday, 15 May, 2009, 10:16 am

    Thanks Cam.
    Coming from you I take that as a great complement. 🙂

  • Ian Friday, 15 May, 2009, 10:16 am

    Adam Daniel Mezei has again made a very insightful audio comment regarding this episode which I thought was worth sharing with you. He explains his concerns and disgust with aspects of this story but is glad to have the experience shared from people who know first hand.

    To listen to his comments on Swinging go to This Link.

    Always thought provoking as usual Adam

  • Adam Daniel Mezei Friday, 15 May, 2009, 7:49 pm

    Word, IK…your guests deliver the nectar, and we mortals merely drink from the well. Your skills are fully honed, Young Padawan…nothing more needs to be taught. 🙂

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